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Welcome to Kim Kulture Club Musings! I'm so happy that you've decided to join me on this journey. We're going to explore a lot ...
Bad Partner Experience
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What is Affiliate Marketing
Over the last couple of weeks I've heard the question "What is an affiliate?" in various forms many, many times. I thought now might be a really great time to answer that for the ones that have asked, the conversations I've had and for those that have wondered but not asked. Let me see if I can help you gain a general understanding of what that means.
First, I'd like to address a few things that it's NOT. Many of the same people had these questions too and that's okay. If you don't know, it's totally okay to ask. It isn't an effortless way to make money or a get rich quick gimmick. It's not multi-level marketing (MLM) or a pyramid scheme. It's not done in exchange for goods or products from the companies and it's not "extra spending money". I actually read something earlier today that referred to it as an "easy, passive way to make extra money." I literally laughed out loud. It's not easy and it's definitely not passive and in this household it's certainly not "extra" - it's what's keeping the heat on.
When you see a disclaimer on a page about being an affiliate or earning a commission or even #ad that means you're looking at an affiliate listing. That's how you know (there are federal requirements to protect consumers and make sure the transactions are transparent). Bear in mind, I am also registered with the state and federal government as a business and have to do all the same reporting and taxes as any business.
Affiliate marketing, in a nutshell, is advertising. How?
I seek out different companies (sometimes they come to me), I research them and the programs they offer. I apply to each and they have the option based on my content, modes of advertising and audience whether or not to accept me into their program. (As do I when I'm approached by a company) Once we agree upon the terms, a contract is entered into.
When you see me share a deal, post a link to a product in something I've written, talk about a new partner, do a themed write up, review something or put an ad on the bottom or side of a webpage - that's me advertising for them. I also have a tab on my webpage (kimkulture.club) for "Partners" and that's the current list of companies I've entered into a partnership with. (I keep it current and updated as I'm constantly looking at new opportunities and eliminating partnerships that aren't the right fit.)
When you click on the links I share, it takes you to the website for that company. Hidden deep down inside that link is an "identifier" that tells the site how you got to them. When you make a purchase, I get credit for the referral to their site. In exchange for that I earn a small commission off the sale. It doesn't cost you anything and you don't pay inflated prices because of the referral - it's their payment to me for advertising for them, just like any other advertising they'd pay for.
Does it pay a lot? Well...there's a reason I am constantly asking for you to share my posts. I can't disclose specifics for legal reasons, but the amount they pay ranges anywhere from 1% to 30%. Sometimes there will be a specific "push" or item that pays more, but those are few and far between. It takes time to earn anything, but it all adds up.
How long does that tracking link stay on your device? It depends. Some places (like Amazon) only count what a person does during that specific visit. Most run a couple of weeks to a couple of months. I have one that tracks for 6 months, but I have never seen anyone else offer that. That means if you visit that site anytime during that tracking period, I earn the commission for the follow up sale as well.
Another thing - going direct to the site? While I'm glad you find what you're looking for, that doesn't have a direct monetary benefit to me. Letting me know "I remembered you told me Disney was having a sale so I ordered" is great, but unless you click through one of my links to get there I don't get the credit for that sale. I may have done the leg work for them but without that magic link they don't know that.
You know I love a good deal. Do I get to take advantage of those sales too? Of course I do, but I don't earn commission on my own orders.
When I started this I had a pretty good idea of what I was getting into. I grew up with parents that were self-employed so I know first-hand how hard it is. When it starts to come together it's unbelievably satisfying, but the countless hours, frustration, fears, doubts and never-ending work is real. It's hard. During the days leading up to Black Friday/Cyber Monday Week if I was sleeping 3 or 4 hours a night I'd be surprised. Spreadsheets, notes, metrics, projections, tracking and lists are everywhere! Most people who have whiteboards have those cute little ones they put notes on or maybe even one that they keep on the fridge. Mine? It's 4 foot x 4 foot and hangs on the wall by my desk. Yes, it's color coded and categorized too.
And that's not even including the content on the site or learning to build a webpage from the ground up and constantly updating that. Whew! "Easy & Passive" my butt!!!
So does that help? I want you to understand what I'm doing, how it works and why I'm doing things the way I am. I want you to understand why I ask for people to share things. There are some companies out there that won't give you a second glance if they think your audience is too small and that can get frustrating. You need an audience to grow your partner list, but you can't grow your audience without good partners. It's a weird dichotomy!
The Office
Hey Friends! I was asked by a couple of people to put together a handy-dandy guide to gifts from "The Office". So here you go! Enjoy & shop away!!! (Many of these are on great Cyber Monday deals so don't wait too long!) Each link will take you to a website that has lots of other options to choose from too.
Presents are the best way to show someone how much you care. It is like this tangible thing that you can point to and say 'Hey man, I love you this many dollars worth.' ~Michael Scott |
Finding Hope
Let me preface this blog with a couple of things. First, this was my husband's idea (he has more faith in me than I do sometimes) and second, we're dipping our toes in the "personal" side of our lives a little again. I really do try and keep that separate from the business side of operations for a lot of reasons but this is one of those things where to truly express this sentiment, I need to bring a little of our real lives in.
I'm not going to lie or sugar coat how this year has been. It's been one heck of a ride. We've dealt with isolation. Our family was horribly sick for over 2 months this spring. Covid antibody test was negative (they weren't doing widespread testing for it yet), but I still think it might have been that - I've fought some nasty illnesses in my life (bronchitis, pneumonia, bronchial pneumonia, mono, etc., etc) but NOTHING like that. We've seen the really ugly side of people come out fighting over everything (masks, toilet paper, politics, distancing...everything they could fight about, they have). Vacations, holidays, birthdays were all canceled or drastically changed. As the sole financial support of our family, I lost my job of nearly 7 years this summer (that's a whole other post unto itself) and being high risk, my options for employment in a pandemic are extremely limited. My husband was diagnosed with cancer and underwent surgery 6 weeks ago to remove a 5"x4" tumor, leaving a huge hole in his back that will have to be fixed with a skin graft once it heals a little more. Because of the cancer and the obvious elevated risk to him, we've had to completely redo everything in our lives even more. Our kids are doing school from home (their school planned for the entire first semester at home from the beginning of the school year and has approved them to do it the entire school year if need be).
(I told you I was going to cross the line into personal) It's not been easy. Not even close.
Starting a business from home, in the best of circumstances, is hard. Starting one during this madness, is harder than I can even express. Re-inventing myself when I'm a lot closer to 50 than 40 is a terrifying thing to be doing. There are days I want to just give up, but I can't. I have to keep going, I have to keep working, I have to push myself as hard as I can for as long as I can (24/7 isn't as much of a stretch of the imagination as you think at this point). Here's the thing...I know the instant I give in to the doubt, the fear, the fatigue, the uncertainty...I'm defeated.
What pushes me in those moments (other than knowing I have two kids watching me)? Determination, sure. More than that? Hope. I have to believe that there is value in what I'm doing and I have to have faith that I'm on the right path and I have to hope that it all comes together. Will everything that's happened and continue to happen in our lives ever make sense? I don't know, but I hope it will. Without that hope, everything else falls apart.
Here's the kicker though...how do you find and hold onto hope when it seems like you're at the end of that proverbial rope? Sheer determination can do a lot, but it's not enough. Our family and support system help, but that isn't necessarily enough. Our faith in a Higher Being? Some people can hold onto their belief system to carry them through, but not everyone can. (Remember the second line of this blog? Yeah...one of us in this house is struggling a little more than the other, but that's another story)
Regardless of how much internal fortitude or support you have, sometimes having something extra helps. Sometimes we need to CHOOSE to fill our hearts, our homes, our lives with things that strengthen us and carry us through. We need to be active participants in CHOOSING HOPE.
I started playing Christmas music about a month ago and our tree went up 2 weeks ago. Prior to that, you'd find me constantly listening to the music they pipe into the Disney Parks because it makes me happy. I discovered Disney Ambience music on youtube and it has been a constant source of calm and peace when I've struggled. And I have struggled. A lot. Honestly though, who hasn't this year?
So to help you find ways to strengthen your hope and your heart through this weird, weird time I've put together some suggestions. These aren't your typical "Chocolate can fix anything" solutions (although I've heard it keeps the Dementors away), but things that have more of a lasting impact. I hope you find something that helps. And I hope, if nothing else, we can all come through the remainder of this year full of hope for what comes next, grateful for the time we've had with our families and at peace with whatever is going on around us.
Make a memory with your family. Live-Stream the Moscow Ballet's Nutcracker and create a memory that they'll always remember. I started looking for "experiences" to do as a family a few years ago at Christmas when they started getting older and the thrill of toys was wearing off. I absolutely wish I'd started when they were much littler. To this day, when they talk about Christmases past, it's seldom the gifts or the toys, it's the experiences. (Use Promo Code CHRISTMAS for an extra 10% off - again really reasonable cost.)
National Comic Book Day
I'm a sucker for those "National Day" designations. They're silly and fun and we could all use a little more of that in our lives. Who is your favorite comic book hero? I took a totally scientific poll (in our house) and these were our favorites:
Hemp My Pet Saved Kashi
Sometimes you're lucky enough to find a product that is so amazing and truly is a life-changer that you can't help but love it; want to share it with the world. Let me share one such product with you and the difference that it made for our family.
When our kids were little we'd talked off and on about getting a dog but we never did. We moved into a new house, we had a good back yard and my husband ended up taking a job that put him away from home for sometimes weeks at a time, the time to find the dog was right.
We weren't actively looking, but we were 'kind of' looking for the right dog and one day, as I was reading the newspaper I looked at the pets section. There wasn't usually anything listed there unless it was from a breeder wanting a crazy amount of money for a dog, but this summer day in 2011 would turn out to be different. I found an ad from someone that was only about 10 miles away looking to rehome a dog. He needed a family, a yard, kids; we had those things. And there was just something so compelling about his picture. I called to see if we could come meet him and within 30 minutes we were there.
We weren't sure at first, he did what dogs do when a stranger comes; he barked a lot and tried to come at us. Once he saw our young boys and they said something to him, his tail started wagging and his whole demeanor changed. The lady that was looking to rehome him had taken him from her daughter and her daughter's boyfriend because the boyfriend didn't like him and they didn't want him. As we visited outside her RV, it became apparent there was a lot more to the story than that. She and her husband (who just grumbled about him being more trouble than he was worth and expensive from inside, never once did he poke his head out) couldn't keep him and she didn't have the heart to take him to the pound.
My husband and I walked away to talk about it and looking back at how sweet and gentle he was with the kids, there was no doubt he was coming home with us that night. He needed rescued and we needed to rescue him. When you take on an animal in that way, knowing he was unwanted, you never really know what you're getting into or what the whole story is. He came to be a member of this family in the summer of 2011 and it took a long time to unfold what we know. And yes, we had some moments along the way when we wondered if we did the right thing but we knew he belonged with us. (Even after we had a vet tell us we needed to have him put down because he was mean and would end up attacking one of our kids. True story. He's never ever tried to hurt either of them.)
One of the first things we learned about him is that he was petrified of men in leather work boots. Not just afraid, but downright petrified. He'd get aggressive (growling, barking and nipping at them) and then end up cowering and wetting himself in fear. Couple that with the fact that he had a bad hip, it wasn't too hard to figure out the sad connection. He was barely 6 months old when he came to live with that if that gives you any idea of what his earliest days must have been like.
We've never regretted bringing him home with us. He's been a good and loyal companion. Even as the kids have become teenagers, he's fiercely protective of them and our home. He's very much a part of this family. Like every living being, as age comes on so do aches and pains and slowing down. It's an unavoidable part of the life cycle. Our guy's bad hip continued to get worse over the years and there were days you could see the cringe on his face as he'd try to find a comfortable way to lay on it. It was heartbreaking. He has given us so many good years that is was well past time to try and find a way to make his senior years the reward he deserved. We've seen first-hand the healing properties of CBD in our lives so why wouldn't it work for animals too? We tried a couple of different products with him and they were just okay. They made a little difference, but not significantly. He didn't care for the flavor and it was hard to get him to take them (which is funny when you consider some of the weird things he eats). By happenchance, I came across Hemp My Pet.
I had a few conversations with the founder, asked a lot of questions and learned a tremendous amount from her. The more I talked to her, the more convinced I was that her products would be different. To solidify that, she sent me a box of samples to try. What company does that? That said more to me about her belief in her products than anything else could have.
I do not exaggerate when I say that one treat was a life changer. Within days of treating him with both the treats and the 1000mg Tincture, he was acting like a puppy. He was able to run and jump and play in a way that was pain-free. Something he'd gone nearly his whole life without being able to do. In days he went from being a &senior& dog to being an older dog with an entirely new lease on life.
It wasn't just the physical change, but his attitude changed too. Until you've seen it first-hand it's hard to really appreciate; his whole demeanor changed. He was happy. He had been happy before, but this was a different kind of happy. He wasn't hurting and grumpy (like anyone who has chronic pain) anymore. He was genuinely happy, peaceful and pain-free. Heck, he was even more patient with the ornery cat!
Is it inexpensive? No, we've tried some that were and we got what we paid for. Is it worth the money? Every single penny. I won't buy anything else for him anymore. He's given so many loyal, faithful years to us that it isn't hard to do the right thing for him. I wish I'd found the products sooner honestly.
If you have an older fur baby or one that has health issues of any kind, I cannot recommend these products enough. They changed his life. However many years we have left with him (he's nearly 10 years old now) I intend to do all that I can to make sure he's happy and comfortable. He's earned that.